Sunday, September 6, 2009

Life Isn't fair, BUT it's still good!

I saw this quote in another blog and I realized how true it is. There are so many negative things happening in my life and in the lives of those I love that sometimes we forget to give praise for the wonderful things that we do have.

What I have learned in just two short days is all that matters in this life is family. As family we are always here for each other day in and day out regardless of our screw-ups or our dark corners in our lives. Also, even though there is so much negativity in the world I must look at the good things...I have a wonderful husband who is there for me whether I am too fat, too ugly or not able to get pregant. I have a husband who will go the walk with me on this fertility journey no matter what even if it means embarassing moments for him :) For that I am soo amazed by his love for me. I have a mother who would give anything for me and physically cannot handle seeing me weak or struggling. (this is a whole other story but you must know there is nothing like the love of your mother). I only hope I can be as good a mother to my children as she was to me. I have a father who is real and who is ALWAYS there to talk and we have a relationship in which we can tell each other anything and not be judged. I admire him and I hope he knows that. I have a step father that loves me unconditionally as though I was his own flesh and blood. I have a step mother who struggles with our relationship but I know that she cares. I have grandparents that are the most amazing people. I have In-laws who truly care about Neal and I. I have a Sister in Law who has been the most amazing best friend to me and can understand my feelings so much more than any person in this world sometimes. WOW...the list could go on and on. Most of all I have a forgiving God who has promised me, "Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass." Psalms 37:4-5.

So even though we are struggling to have a healthy pregnancy and times are tough for everyone it seems there really is good in this world and we need to recognize that even though times are tough there is still good and the tough times only make us stronger! And also to know that God is watching out for us we just need to continue to pray and live our life according to His will and not ours.



I am sharing these picture because it reminds me off all that I am thankful for!










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